Avoiding Group Chat Judgment

All right. First up: They're avoiding becoming content for other people's group chats.

Ah, so this one is real because you've seen what happens to people who post

like they feel safe. You've watched a harmless story, someone dancing in their kitchen,

someone proud of their outfit, someone finally laughing again get turned into a screenshot

before it even disappears. Not always out of hatred. Sometimes it's worse than that.

It's boredom. It's casual judgment. It's, "I don't know why this annoyed me,

but it did," because hate takes energy. Hate is loud. Hate admits you matter enough to

react to, but group chat commentary, that's effortless. That's people shaping a story about you