Boundary Ignored, Feelings Dismissed

“He broke the boundary… then told me to get therapy for caring.” Part 3

When I told him how upset I was, he instantly went into defense mode. He said:

“Don’t let this spoil our relationship.” As if I was the one ruining things. Then he suggested

I should “see a counselor.” Not because I was struggling. Not because I asked

for help. But because he didn’t want to deal with the fact that he crossed a very clear

boundary and didn’t care. No apology. No accountability. Just dismissal.

And honestly? I’m struggling to process how someone can flat-out disregard something important

to me, lie about forgetting, and then act like I’m the problem. So now I’m wondering: