Broke Up After Girlfriend Tested Me

Am I The A-Holee for ending things after finding out my girlfriend was testing me the entire

time we were dating? English Second Language So Bare with me I (24M) met my girlfriend (25F) three months

ago through mutual friends. Things moved pretty fast, lots of time together,

constant texting, staying over, talking about where our relationship could go.

She was very open about being “emotionally cautious” because of her past relationship. I respected that

and tried to be patient and consistent. About a month in, she started bringing up small conflicts.

Nothing huge things like me replying “too late” and other stuff like that. Every time she’d

say she wasn’t mad just “noting patterns.” I apologized, adjusted and thought we were just learning