Broke Up Over Controlling Move-In Demands

I don't think I'm the a**hole, but my aunt and mom got in my head

over the holidays and now I am questioning myself. Until early November I,

28 female, was in a long-term relationship with Kevin, 30 male.

We were together for about 18 months. He was planning to move in

with me at the end of November when his lease was up. I own my

own place, whereas he had a roommate who was recently engaged. Seemed like good

timing all round. Kevin was generally a good guy. Funny, charming,

easy going. I thought I was in love. But a few weeks before he