Brother's Mistakes Aren't My Responsibility

Throwaway Account I am a 37 year old female and have an older brother George who is 45

years old. He isn't an idiot but he can be lazy. Definitely the type to rely on weaponized

incompetence whenever women and girls are around. Example: He literally acted like he didn't

know where our mom kept the paper plates in the house he lived in for nearly 20 years just so

she'd get up, go into the kitchen and make him his plate during the holidays,

just one week post her bunion surgery. Side Note - They both tried to passive aggressively make

me feel guilty for not offering to fix my adult brother's plate so our mom wouldn't have to

do it. Like I wasn't the only one doing the most of cooking and would be doing