Choose Healing Over Suffering

You deserve to stop suffering because of what another person has done to you.

Forgiveness isn't some unfair gift you have to give the person who hurt you.

It's your choice to drive a stake in the ground and declare, "I refuse to keep

suffering because of what they did." It's not saying what they did was okay.

It's not a ticket for them to keep hurting you. If you get triggered after you've forgiven,

you're not a failure. You can forgive the facts of what happened, while still healing

from the impact over time. Don't reduce your one incredible life to the limitations

of living hurt.