Christmas Move Turns Into Nightmare

Part 1. Merry Christmas to me. What was supposed to be a life changing

point for the good is now a huge nightmare. Me (45 M) and her (44 F) have had a long distance

relationship for going on three years. There were talks of her moving to be with me (15 hours

away) for nearly a year, but when I was laid off in July (pending a 2 year contract

in which I must stay with the company remote to earn my severance), we decided six months

ago that I should move there. For the last six months I have been making arrangements.

I sold my house in a bad market and barely broke even. I sold or gave away

most of my possessions. I had a full three bedroom house and now literally everything I own fits into