Christmas Move Turns Into Nightmare

I just can’t. How can someone do this to someone else that they care about?

Merry Christmas to me. What was supposed to be a life changing point for the good

is now a huge nightmare. Me and her have had a long distance relationship for going on three years.

There were talks of her moving to be with me (15 hours away) for nearly a year,

but when I was laid off in July (pending a 2 year contract in which I must stay with the company

remote to earn my severance), we decided six months ago that I should move there.

For the last six months I have been making arrangements. I sold my house in a bad market

and barely broke even. I sold or gave away most of my possessions. I had a full three