Considering Grandparents Custody After Mom Dies

Am I The A-Hole for considering giving my daughter’s grandparents full custody after her

mom died during childbirth? I (M26) My girlfriend died from complications during childbirth,

leaving me to raise our daughter alone. That’s not something I expected or prepared for,

but it’s the situation I’m in. In the first few weeks, I handled what needed

to be handled. I made medical decisions, took care of the funeral, and made sure my

daughter was safe. Pretty quickly, though, I realized that trying to do everything

on my own while grieving wasn’t sustainable. I wasn’t sleeping, my head wasn’t clear,

and I wasn’t going to pretend that “pushing through” automatically made me a better father.