Cutting Off Dad After Stepmom Kidnaps Daughter

Am I the A-hole for cutting off my dad after my stepmom tried to take my daughter?

I’m m32, married, with a two-year-old daughter. This is about my

stepmom f54 and my dad m61. My mom died when I was a kid and my dad remarried

later. I never loved my stepmom but we were civil. She’s polite in

public and controlling in private. When my daughter was born, she constantly criticized

my wife—how she fed her, held her, and comforted her. We ignored it to

keep the peace. Three months ago, my wife and I had an emergency and asked my dad and

stepmom to watch our daughter for one night. The next morning they wouldn’t answer