Dumped Boyfriend After Learning He’s a Deadbeat

My boyfriend, 34 years old, and I, 29 years old, have been seeing

each other since last December. We began dating casually but our relationship became

serious in June. He has an 8 year old daughter and I was quite apprehensive about dating a man

with a child but he sold himself as a great present dad and I bought it.

Occasionally, I would ask after his daughter but I didn't want to be overly enmeshed

in that part of his life since our relationship is fairly new. The issue began

at the end of November when I received my niece's Santa Wishlist. She's also 8 years

old. This prompted me to ask my boyfriend about his daughter's Wishlist seeing