Epictetus Detachment for INFJ Peace

The Epictetus Detachment Doctrine, not a quote you post, not a philosophy

you perform, a private rule you live by when you've finally had enough. It's simple.

It's almost insulting in how simple it is. There are things that are up to you

and things that are not. Up to you, your judgment, your choices,

your standards, your restraint. Not up to you, their response, their mood,

their confusion, their story about you, their ability to meet you with the

same depth you offer. Epictetus wasn't telling you to stop feeling, he was telling you

to stop handing your steering wheel to strangers, to stop volunteering as the manager of,