Fall in Love With Yourself First

Before you fall in love with someone, you need to fall in love with yourself first.

Most women under thirty rush into relationships without knowing their own values or boundaries.

Here's what changes everything. Spend three months journaling one question daily: what do I

need to feel safe and valued? This simple practice reveals your non-negotiables before someone else

tries to define them. Real emotional intelligence means pausing before reacting,

not just understanding feelings. Keep your friendships alive, chase your career

goals, maintain your hobbies. A partner should add to your life, not complete it.

Watch for red flags like dismissiveness or guilt tripping. Trust builds slowly through consistent