I Lied After She Cheated

My girlfriend admitted she cheated, so I told her I had too (even though I hadn’t)

Me (28M) girlfriend (29) admitted last night that she cheated on me. I’d already had

suspicions for a while staying out late, acting distant, just off overall

so it wasn’t completely out of the blue. When she told me, I reacted emotionally and said I’d been

cheating on her for our entire relationship. That wasn’t true. I told her I’d been seeing one other

woman consistently, which completely set her off. She started yelling, demanding details,

and spiraled pretty fast. What really got me was how she immediately tried to minimize

her own actions, saying it only happened once and that she was drunk, as if that somehow