Managing Boundaries and Expectations

So, as you were saying, uh, boundaries manage expectations.

It's, it's interesting actually, I see that in the, in the,

my dating life too. The, the most functional girls in my life don't take anything

for granted. They ask actually, um, before we get together, "Will I be sleeping

over tonight?" Like, they don't assume that you're just gonna sleep over.

Or they, they ask for stuff, if they wanna leave something or they wanna use something

in the household. And, um, but I've certainly, like,

had relations with boundary-less women, and they're just, like, sloppy,