part 1Refusing to Donate My Kidney

AITA for refusing to give my boyfriend my kidney? part 1 I (28F) have been

with my boyfriend, Tom (30M), for almost five years. He’s funny,

charming, and has always been there for me—until recently. Six months ago,

Tom was diagnosed with kidney failure and has been on dialysis ever since. When the doctors

mentioned he might need a transplant, everyone in his family looked at me.

I got tested and—unfortunately—was a match. Tom was thrilled, but something inside me froze.

We’d been arguing a lot lately, mostly about marriage and commitment. I told him I wasn’t

ready to propose yet, and he accused me of wasting his time. So when I found