Roommate's Shame Tactic Backfires

“He didn’t just want a rule… he wanted to embarrass us into obeying.” After the vote,

I noticed something strange. We always give a heads-up before bringing people

over. He stopped. Multiple times, I’d be in my underwear—then he’d suddenly walk

in with a group of people. I’d get weird looks, excuse myself, go change.

I told him once: “If you give me a heads up, I’ll be dressed before anyone gets

here.” He rolled his eyes. Another roommate had the same issue. Then one day,

he finally admitted everything. He straight up asked me and another housemate if his plan had

worked. We asked, “What plan?” He said he was purposely trying to shame