Signs of Selfish Love in Relationships

Signs of Self-Focused Love These behaviors suggest a person is prioritizing

how the partner makes them feel over the partner's genuine well-being. 1.

Low Emotional Investment in Her Pain Reaction to Distress: Your first reaction to her negative

emotions is to defend yourself, minimize, or feel annoyed/inconvenienced, rather than showing

immediate concern and comfort for her distress. Conditional Care: If you primarily

cared about how she made you feel, you used her to validate your own worth.

You enjoyed the happiness and ease she brought, but when she's unhappy, you feel inconvenienced

and more upset because the status quo (which benefited you) is disrupted. 2.