Skipping Wedding Because Ex Attending

Am i the asshole for not going to my girlfriend’s sister’s wedding because her ex will

be there? <break time="1.0s" /> I 27 Male, have been dating my girlfriend 26 Female for 2 years.

Her sister is getting married soon and I was supposed to go with her. Last week,

I found out her ex of 5 years is invited and will be there the whole weekend.

They lived together and broke up shortly before we met. I told her I’m uncomfortable spending an entire

destination wedding around her ex. I didn’t ask her to uninvite him or not go — I just

said I’d rather stay home. She says I’m insecure, selfish, and embarrassing

her in front of her family. Her parents and friends agree with her,