Stop Pressuring, Start Cooperation

You ask nicely. You repeat yourself. You raise your voice. And somehow… your child digs in even

harder. <break time="0.6s" /> What if the problem isn’t how you’re asking — but the fact that

you’re asking at all? <break time="0.6s" /> Researchers studying families in the Solomon Islands

noticed something surprising. Kids help. They cooperate. They contribute. <break time="0.6s" />

And adults almost never pressure them. <break time="0.6s" /> In this video, I’ll walk you through the one rule behind

that — and why removing pressure can do more for cooperation than any command

ever could. Researchers weren’t looking for a “parenting trick.” <break time="0.6s" /> They were studying

how children in Solomon Islands communities learn responsibility — who cares for them,