Struggling with Unequal Responsibilities in Marriage

He Wants Kids… But Not Responsibility: How Am I Supposed to Live Like This? I’m 36,

and my husband is almost 40. He earns about $3,000 a month, I earn $6,000.

I work 12 hours a day, pay almost all the bills, and even cover part

of his $40,000 debt because he spends his money on tools, random Temu orders, and food.

He could order tools through his company, but he “doesn’t want to bother his boss.” Yet he has

no problem bothering me. He’s been in his field for 10 years, has incredible experience,

but refuses to grow professionally because he’s comfortable where he is. He wants kids,

but doesn’t understand that I can’t cover the house, cars, and everything else