Warmth with Unspoken Boundaries

Seventhly, INFJs hide sharp boundaries behind warmth. People mistake kindness

for permission. INFJs often look flexible until a line is crossed. Then the tone turns

calm and final. That whiplash is the wise fool reveal. They saw it coming, they just didn't

react early. You don't walk around announcing your limits. You don't post them.

You don't lecture people about respect. You don't threaten to leave every time something feels

off. You just show up warm. You listen closely. You remember small

details. You reply thoughtfully. You make people feel safe enough to be messy,

safe enough to be human. And because you can hold so much, people start assuming