Why She’s Upset: Three Overlooked Reasons

You keep saying you don’t know why your wife is upset. Here are three reasons you probably overlook.

ONE You hear her words but you do not make her feel heard. You wait for your

turn to talk instead of slowing down and trying to understand. She is tired of repeating herself

to someone who thinks listening is optional. TWO You show effort only when things

start falling apart. When everything seems fine, you get comfortable and stop trying.

She wants consistency, not a grand gesture after weeks of neglect. THREE You say “I didn’t

mean it” and think the conversation is over. Intentions matter, but consequences

matter more. She wants accountability, not a defense lawyer every time she brings up pain.