Yelling at Husband Over Unequal Load

Am I the A-hole for yelling at my husband (38) that I’m (28)not a stay at home mom and

he needs to step up or get out? Let me start by saying I have the most respect for

stay at home moms and what they do as my mother was one and my grandma but it’s not something

I can do financially or mentally. I am a 28F and my husband is a 38M, we both work but

he has a more traditional day job during the week and I work in the hospital so my hours can

be a little crazy. During the week I do it all cooking, cleaning, child care,

school drop off and workout after the kids go down. But then on the days I work 12-15

hours I’m still expected to keep up with the house and kids and it’s a 50/50 shot if