Finding the Right Match for Your Needs

It’s a hard truth, but it can also set you free: you were never asking for too much,

you were just asking the wrong person. For a long time, you might have believed that your needs

for things like good communication, affection, or commitment were unreasonable.

You may have lowered your expectations or hidden your true feelings to make things work,

thinking that you were the problem. But the reality is, you were looking

for support from someone who was unable or unwilling to give it. It’s like trying

to get water from a well that has run dry; you can’t get something that simply isn’t there.

Your needs were never the issue. The real problem was that you and that person were