AITA for suggesting my wife get a job?

AITA for telling my wife "that's why you should get a job" after she told me people shop

alot more than she does? So my wife and I are in our late 30s,

we've been married for 13 years and she's been a sahm that whole time other than doing

a short grub hub gig for a few months. She made the decision of being a sahm because she "wanted

to spend time with the kids and not miss anything" even though when dating she said she wanted

to work, and I expressed wanting to be a dual-income household. One child is mine

biologically, the eldest is not. They are 14 and 11. Yesterday,my wife

went to the mall shopping and when she came back she said "you should've seen all those people