Broke Up After She Told My Family

Am I the A hole for breaking up with my girlfriend after she secretly involved my family

in our private issues? I (25 Male) broke up with my girlfriend (24 Female) a few weeks ago,

and the reaction from people around me has been mixed. Some think I was justified,

others think I ended things over something that could have been talked through. For context,

I’m a very private person. I don’t like airing personal struggles to people outside

a relationship, especially family. My girlfriend knew this about me from the start,

and we’d talked more than once about keeping conflicts between us unless we both agreed otherwise.

Over the past couple of months, we were going through a rough patch. Nothing dramatic—just