Caught My Wife Cheating, Now What?

**Throwaway because my wife knows my main. Long post. Sorry in advance.**

I never thought I’d be *that* guy. You know, the one who snoops, who spirals,

who ends up on Reddit at 3 a.m. typing out his entire life story to strangers because he doesn’t

know what else to do. But here I am. I’m going to try to be as factual

as possible, but I’ll admit up front that I’m emotional, tired, and probably not

thinking straight. I’m posting because I genuinely don’t know what the next step is,

and I need outside perspectives—preferably from people who aren’t my friends, because I can already

hear what they’d say. ### Background I (34M) have been married to my wife