Did I Ruin My Best Friend’s Party?

am i the a*hole for ruining my best friend night during her party? I met Judy at a

time when neither of us had anything—no money, no status, just big dreams

and long nights talking about who we wanted to become. We promised we’d always have each

others' backs no matter what. However, things change as our career start

taking off. As Judy started her corporate job as a marketing manager, she was well liked

and quickly promoted to senior. Since then, I noticed how differently she treated me.

I was still the person she leaned on emotionally, but not the person she respected.

She downplays my achievements, and joke about me to others. I kept letting it