Divorced Without Warning After Her Affair

AITA for not warning my wife before filing for divorce after finding out she cheated?

I (34M) was married to my wife (32F) for just under 6 years. No kids.

From the outside, people thought we were solid. We didn’t fight much,

had routines, shared friends. I genuinely thought we were okay. About four months

before I filed for divorce, I found out she was cheating. It wasn’t dramatic.

No catching her in bed or anything. She fell asleep on the couch one night with her phone

next to her, and it kept lighting up. I wasn’t trying to snoop,

but the same name kept popping up with heart emojis. I recognized pretty quickly that this