Family Gaslighting Over Wedding Money

I think my own family is gaslighting me. For months, they've been insisting I promised to give

my sister ten thousand dollars for her wedding. Every single conversation ends with them saying

I agreed to it last Christmas. But I never said that. I was barely there

for an hour before I had to leave for work. Now they're calling me selfish,

saying I'm ruining her special day, that I'm the reason she might have to downsize everything.

My parents won't talk to me unless I apologize. Here's what they don't know.

I recorded that Christmas conversation because I suspected they'd twist my words.

I listened to it again. I never promised anything. But my sister did