Love as a Dangerous Game

The healthier your love is, the more it terrifies them. Ever had someone

say they love you, then vanish right after a vulnerable moment? They crave connection,

but the second it feels real and stable, their internal alarm goes off. This is because

their childhood blueprint taught them that love is unsafe and people are unreliable.

So they unconsciously sabotage the good thing you have. They'll pick a fight, get cold,

or accuse you of being too much. They are testing you, waiting for you

to leave to confirm their deepest fear: that they are unlovable. It’s a heartbreaking, self-fulfilling

prophecy. They don’t sabotage love because they want to lose it; they do it because,