Mother-in-Law Taking Over Our Family

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. His mother was never a problem while

we were dating because she lived across the country. We live in California, she was in Boston.

My husband is a middle child and definitely has always been treated as such by his mother.

She's even made middle child jokes on her Instagram prasing her youngest and laughing that

she treats him better than my husband. While we were dating my mother in law flew across the

country to come to my husband's work and yell at him in front of his coworkers for

using a car that my mother in law had left for youngest, even though he didn't have a license and

my husband was fully supporting him at the time and needed the car to get to work.