Never Lend Money to Loved Ones

You know the four most dangerous words in, in any language? They're not,

"I will love you always." Nope. They are, "Can you borrow

me money?" Yeah. That, that one single question has destroyed

more friendships, shattered more family bonds, and created more just silent corrosive

resentment than any other. I mean, I once watched a 20-year friendship

between two men, they were like brothers, completely disintegrate all over a, a $2,000 loan.

And if you've ever felt that, that sickening knot in your stomach, that blend of guilt

and pressure and anxiety when someone you love asks you for a loan, well,