Redefining Relationship Compatibility

You’ve been lied to about compatibility — and it’s ruining perfectly good relationships.” Everyone thinks

compatibility means liking the same foods, having the same hobbies,

or agreeing on everything. That’s NOT compatibility — that’s convenience. The real compatibility test isn’t how well

you match when things are easy… It’s how you handle each other when things get difficult.

Do you communicate or shut down? Do you blame or take accountability? Do you attack or

try to understand? Compatibility is emotional teamwork. It’s the ability to repair after

conflict, not avoid it. It’s being safe with each other, not perfect for

each other. So stop asking ‘Are we similar?’ Start asking: ‘Can we disagree