Wife Challenges Daughter to Wrestling Match

Am I the a-hole? Wife asked for it, and then got upset when it happened. I'm a wrestler.

I used to compete at a high level. Obviously, I don't compete anymore,

but I still lift weights and wrestle for fun. My wife and I have three kids.

I enrolled all our kids in wrestling at the age of seven. The older two have been training and

competing since then, and the youngest didn't like the sport,

so she quit, and now she is doing gymnastics. My wife has never wrestled,

but she goes to the gym regularly, and she has decent strength. Yesterday,

I was chatting with my wife, and the topic of our daughter's wrestling tournament came