Wife Wants Med School, Husband Worried

Am i the A-Hole or telling my wife that she probably shouldn't go to med school?

I'm (36) and in my last year of law school. Throughout the process, my wife (33) has

been super supportive, and a fantastic mother to our 2 year old. Now that I'm poised

to graduate, she rightfully wants to pursue her career. She's determined to be a dermatologist.

However, I voiced some concerns. Namely, the HUGE time commitment that med school

will be. She seems to brush it off, much to my frustration. She has yet to start

undergraduate school, so that's 4 years. From what I understand, med school will be an additional

4 years, and another 3-7 years of residency. Even under the most liberal estimation,