Am I Just Insecure or an Asshole?

r/AITA or just a useless chud big? I (22F) matched with a person significantly

more educated and good looking than me. He is a design major here in Queens College.

I see him on the quad playing volleyball every now and then. I am very tied with him in terms of

our sense of humor, but I just don’t feel connected with him as a person even though we have

been matched for over a week now. Everything I do seems to never be up to his standards

in terms of aura; is it that it turns out I’m really that auraless and useless? Did I become useless

because of how nervous he makes me? It seems I’m wrong all around. I don’t make money

like he does. I don’t give him the gifts he deserves. I don’t read and study because I'm