Long-Distance Move Turns Into Nightmare

Merry Christmas to me. What was supposed to be a life changing point for the good

is now a huge nightmare. Me (45 M) and her (44 F) have had a long distance relationship for

going on three years. There were talks of her moving to be with me (15 hours away) for nearly

a year, but when I was laid off in July (pending a 2 year contract in which I must

stay with the company remote to earn my severance), we decided six months ago that I should

move there. For the last six months I have been making arrangements. I sold my house

in a bad market and barely broke even. I sold or gave away most of my possessions.

I had a full three bedroom house and now literally everything I own fits into a Honda HRV.