The Myth of Parental Sole Responsibility

The idea that parents are solely responsible for who you become is a total myth. Pedagogy teaches

us that raising a human is actually a massive group project involving schools,

friends, and even the economy. It is called the ecological model, meaning you are

shaped by everything from your living room to the laws of your country. Plus,

parenting styles make or break you. Too strict, and you rebel. Too chill,

and you have no boundaries. The sweet spot is high warmth mixed with high standards.

Whether it is a nuclear family, co-parenting, or foster care, the secret isn't

perfection, it is just consistent connection.