Banning Mom’s Sunday Toddler Visits

Am I The Asshole for telling my mom she can't take my daughter to her house anymore?

My mom used to take my two year old every Sunday for a few hours. It started as a

blessing because my wife and I could finally run errands and clean the house. But there was one

problem. Every single time, she'd promise to bring our daughter back at three and

show up at four thirty or later. Last Sunday was the final straw. We had plans with

my father in law before he left for Christmas. She rolled in an hour and a half

late and blamed my toddler for the delay. I calmly told her she could visit

at our house instead but couldn't take her anymore. Her response? She told me and